Who's In Love?

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- just wanna share with you guys my talent in writing poems...created ko 'to June 2005 pa...hahahah...here it goes.

I think its really easy
But I was wrong
To think that I have everything
But to bad coz its you I adore.

At first, you are just a friend to me
But days pass by and i felt something new
Something that is so strong and I cant easily control
And so i gave up and let my feelings show.

The way I feel about you
Makes me really go crazy
But i don't want you to know
Because I’m afraid that there will come a time
That you will stay away from me.

I know that I cant escape from the reality
Coz this is real and this is what I feel
Actually, This is the 2nd time around
That I love someone real.

Now, i still don't know what to do
Especially now, that I’m falling in love with you
Maybe someday, this feelings will gone…
But please If you need me…
You know that I’m just around.

Graveyard Shifters Health Tips

Our bodies are affected by the light and Gravitational affects just like

the OCEAN, MOON and the EARTH. It is a powerful force.
If the ocean can rise and fall from the daily rotation and gravitational forces,
our bodies are surely affected also! HERE ARE A FEW TIPS FOR YOUR HEALTH.
DO NOT DRINK COFFEE, CAFFEINATED SODAS, OR SUGARY SOFT DRINKS,
These are poisons to your body even when you are on a regular schedule!
DRINK WATER AND LOTS OF IT! EAT NUTRITIOUS FOODS, NO CRAP! That means no processed foods,
EAT FRESH vegetables, fruits, etc. ONLY! YOU need to get at least ONE hour of sunshine a day.
THE SUN IS GOOD FOR YOU, do not believe the scare tactics of the sunscreen manufacturers.
YOU NEED TO GET VITAMIN D FROM THE SUN. IT HELPS REGULATE YOUR BODY CLOCK.
SET A SLEEPING SCHEDULE. How did you sleep when you were working a day job? Remember?
You would get up in the morning and go to work soon after you had risen from your sleep.
What time did you go to bed? 10,11,12pm? Then you got up and departed for the office.
I am sure you now come home and are up for several hours before you TRY to sleep.
Attempt this:

#1. You need create an area in your home that is DARK and Quiet. NO RADIO, NO TV. A SLEEPING AREA ONLY.

#2.After you come home from work DO NOT EAT A HEAVY MEAL, Eat something light if anything at all.
Do the things you used to do when working a regular schedule. Go dancing, play tennis, shopping. etc.
DO NOT GO TO SLEEP AS SOON AS YOU COME HOME. FORCE YOURSELF TO STAY AWAKE UNTIL AFTER 12 pm.
This is will help you reset your body clock.

#3. By 1 pm or sooner, start to relax and prepare to sleep, watch a movie, read a book,etc.
You should set a goal to be sleeping no later than 2pm. With that goal in mind, you should be
able to sleep until 10pm. or longer.

#4. Arise and prepare for work. EAT A GOOD BREAKFAST, EAT GOOD QUALITY FOOD! Do not use caffeine,
soft drinks or etc to boost your awakening. Give yourself plenty of time to prepare for the office.

#5. Try this for at least a week. You need to give your body time to adjust. Over 20 years your
body has been used to a totally different schedule. You can not expect to get used to this
GRAVEYARD shift quickly. Especially if you are eating poorly and using stimulants such as
coffee and soft drinks. STICKING TO A SCHEDULE IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR THIS TO WORK..

Facebook Addict ka ba?

A recent study shows that Facebook overtakes daily activities like waking up, getting dressed, using telephone, or checking email. According to Dr. Michael Fenichel, a psychologist, ” The amazing thing is that, like cellphones, nobody seems to notice the vast amount of time and energy- at work, at home, and now while on the move-people are DEVOTING to Facebook. It has become a given.” Eventually he calls it Facebook Addiction Disorder or FAD.

How would you know if you’re a Facebook addict? Here are some signs:

1. You lose sleep over Facebook. In other words, 3 layers na ang eye bags mo for sleeping late.
2. You spend more than an hour a day on Facebook. Your desire increases while your satisfaction decreases. Hmmm
3. You become obsessed with old loves or ex boyfriends or girlfriends you reconnect with on Facebook. At times, you’re just stalking sa buhay ng ibang tao or to simply gossip sa accounts nila. :-)
4. You ignore work in favor of Facebook. You get paid sa work to log on sa FB for an 8 hour job. Or if you’re a student, it keeps you motivated to level up your score sa Mafia Wars, Farm Ville & different surveys of the day instead of studying tomorrow’s lesson.
5. The thought of getting Facebook leaves you in cold sweat. If symptoms persist, consult your doctor!

The point of the matter is, we need help in controlling ourselves from being preoccupied in this kind of stuff. I would consider even Twitter, blogging, internet games, or anything or someone that pulls our attention as we tend to neglect other things which needs to be accomplished on time. Many of us are guilty on this. But what do we need to do? The word self control might help us overcome the addictions we have. Watch Joshua Harris and listen as he talks about self control in this wired world that we are living in.

Sycophant Ka Ba?

syc·o·phant
n.

A servile self-seeker who attempts to win favor by flattering influential people.

sycophantic
adj.

using flattery to win favour from individuals wielding influence; toadyish; obsequious

One of the most quoted poems during the month of love is Elizabeth Barret Browning’s “How Do I love Thee? Let me count the ways…”

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth
And height my soul can reach,
When feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, — I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! — and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Kung may iba’t-ibang paraan para ipahayag ang pag-ibig natin sa ating sinisinta, ngayon, higit kailanpaman, dapat na ipakita din natin ang pagmamahal natin sa ating trabaho.

Everyday, hundreds if not thousands of people are losing their jobs because of the global financial crisis. Ang balita nga ay milyon na ang nawalan ng trabaho sa Europe at America.

If you still have work. Thank the Lord for it. Value it and love your job.

How do you love your work? Let me count the ways by which you could show your love for your job.

1) Be present and punctual. Our presence and punctuality are evidences of being a responsible worker. Report for work on time and submit your reports and assignments even before the deadline. It is hard to rely on someone who is always not around. Mahirap bigyan ng trabaho ang taong palagi ring late dahil marami pang ibang trabaho ang maaanlata.

2) Be productive. Don’t just be present and punctual. Maaga nga tayo sa office pero puro personal stuff naman an gating pinagkaka-abalahan. Aba’y bale wala rin. Hindi naman yata fair sa kumpanya kung papasok lang tayo para magtinda ng ating mga sideline na pinagkakakitaan. Hindi masamang magkaroon ng dagdag na pagkakakitaan. Pero ilagay po natin sa lugar. Ang sideline, di dapat nakagambala sa ating main line of work. Are you contributing to the revenues of your company? Dapat lang. Be productive.

3) Be a player, a team player. Nurture strong relationships with your team members. That is one way of making yourself valuable in the company. Mahirap sibakin sa kumpanya ang taong marunong makipag-kapwa. Being a people-person is an asset. It is a trait that we should learn to develop. A good relationship with your team is a strong glue that will help you stick with your company. If you were to choose the people whom you will work with, will you eagerly choose yourself to be part of the team? Show that you love your work by being a team player.

4) Be perceptive and positive. These days, it’s an edge to be in the loop, to be informed and updated. Alam mo ba kung ano ang nangyayari sa paligid mo at sa iba’t-ibang panig ng mundo. Do you understand the potential impact of the global crisis in your industry? It is good to be perceptive. It is an advantage to know how to read and interpret the signs of the times. But don’t just be perceptive. Sa dami ng mga not-so-good news ngayon, it is imperative that we remain positive. Yung iba kasi, kapag nakakabalita ng bad news, sa halip na maging source of encouragement, doom at gloom pa ang hatid sa kanyang opisina. We can be positive because we have a BIG God who remains to be in control.

5) Being prayerful. Do you honestly take time to pray for your company, your boss, your co-workers, and your work? Prayer works! If you love your work, pray for it. Ipanalangin mo na magbukas ang Diyos ng maraming opportunities para sa inyong kumpanya. Ipanalangin mo ang boss mo na gabayan siya ni God sa paggawa ng mga desisyon para sa inyong organisasyon. Ipanalangin mo na mabawasan ang intriga sa inyong department at magkaroon ng pagkaka-isa lalo na sa mga panahong ito. Pray that you will always be a blessing in your workplace.

Do you love your work? You should, because many people are losing theirs. Make a conscious effort to value and love your work more. How can we show our love for our work? Let’s count the ways, 1) Be Present and Punctual; 2) Be Productive; 3) Be a team-Player; 4) Be Perceptive and Positive; and 5) Be Prayerful.

Tips on How to Work Smart, Not Hard

1. Assess everything that needs to be done. Before you plunge into it headfirst, remember that enthusiasm needs to be tempered with wisdom. Look over every aspect of the job, and allow yourself ample "pondering time" so that you can be sure that every detail is accomplished on time, and accurately.
2. Consider your materials. Don't take shortcuts, when possible, on the quality of your materials. Cheap materials are harder to work with, because they aren't as sturdy or nice. Because they're harder to work with, they take longer to bend to your will. Remember that working smart means thinking about these things - in most jobs, the materials aren't where the majority of the costs are. It's the labor - the time needed to complete the job - that costs the company more money. Using inexpensive materials where they are easily installed makes sense. Trying to save a few bucks but spending an extra hour or two because those cheap things didn't install properly doesn't make any sense at all.
   
3. Follow your plan and don't deviate from it - unless you must. Once you've assessed the job and come up with a plan, it's usually best to stick with the plan. However, things come up: a part doesn't fit, or it turns out it's not the best item for the job, someone gets sick, all sorts of emergencies can throw a wrench into your plan. Be prepared to think on your feet, and be resourceful. Nimble thinking is essential to working smart, especially when something goes wrong. Following a plan slavishly, in spite of new information, developments, or problems is just plain dumb. Be flexible and change if you need to.
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   Delegate to the right people at the right times. Make sure your team is well-ordered. If one person is faster, put him or her on the part of your task that will take longest. If one person is more skilled and accurate, put him or her on the part of the task that is most critical.
5. Work parallel. This means that there may be four or five, for example, components to your job. Let's say you are a design and display company creating a display for a county fair. Your client wants a combination of signs, banners, flyers, and brochures, along with a booth design. You set your best designer in motion to design the copy and look of things, but meanwhile, you assign someone to procure what essential supplies you will need. So far, you could be having one of your people contact printers to get pricing for the number of flyers and/or brochures your client wants, and another to take an inventory of what sign and banner materials you already have on hand - vinyl or paint colors, banner sizes, pre-cut blanks. This way, once the client meeting is complete and you have a good idea of what is going into the installation, you can match it to your inventory and see if there are things on hand that you can use to get started, while someone else goes and gets the things you still need.
6. Control clients by communicating properly. Many times, it's hard to work smart because your clients will insist that their job is a big rush. Instead of scrambling to get that job done, make sure your clients understand in the initial meeting what your normal turnaround time for their job would be. If you know you will need two weeks, don't let the client squeeze you into one week unless that client is willing to pay extra for the rush. Most businesses have more than one client, yet many clients forget that their job is not the only one you're working on.
   
   
   • Stick to your policies. If you charge extra to rush a job, don't deviate from that, ever. It's unfair to apply policies to some customers and not others. When one client comes in and is very pushy, feeling entitled to your undivided attention immediately, often, you can simply say something like, "Sure, we can rush the job for you, but I need to let you know that it will cost extra - probably as much as 50% more than the original quote, for the rush." It's amazing how quickly this type of client stands down, saying, "Oh, forget that - it's not that big a rush. We can wait." Just let them know that you are willing to rush their jobs, but by doing so, you must move other customers who were "in line" before them out of the way - causing you to run those jobs behind. Plus, you need different workers to complete different jobs, and rushing requires you to pay them overtime, rather than allowing more time to complete the job during regular hours. This is smart - it lets your clients know that you really know your stuff, plus it relieves your schedule or makes you more money.
   • Give one to three choices - never more. Handing a swatch book to a client and saying, "Tell me which colors you are interested in" is deadly. Too many choices will cause horrible delays as the customer peruses ALL possibilities, and later tends to second-guess every decision, wanting to see it now "In green?" or how about "In this chartreuse? It's just a shade different, but..." Oy. Instead, say things like, "Do you like this blue or this green better?" Lots of the jobs you do will instantly suggest certain tools, colors, approaches, materials, etc. You can also attempt to influence the client in the direction you think best for his purpose. Use your expertise to narrow down the critical choices right away: "We can paint, which will be expensive to fix when it weathers, about 3 - 5 years from now, or we can use 5-year vinyl, or 10-year vinyl for the letters. The best stuff only costs a few dollars more."
7. Never willingly trap yourself into accepting a bad job. You know when a job is going to be great. You also know when you get that "uh-oh" feeling that something is not right. A client or boss who pressures you into areas where you are not comfortable, either because it is an unreasonable expectation or because it's outside your scope needs to be aware immediately of your discomfort with the job as proposed. Make any misgivings clear instantly, and in front of others, if possible. If you are self-employed, declining a job like this is much smarter, even though it's so hard to let that money go when you depend on every job for your livelihood. Still, a client who doesn't pay because you didn't adhere to every jot and tittle of his demands (and some are just breathtakingly demanding) is not a good customer in the end, and if you work for hours and end up not being paid all or part of what you worked for - especially when you were sweating bullets over it the whole time - is not smart. And it's the hardest work you'll ever do.
8. Know when it's time for a re-bid. Don't make so many changes that you end up doing a much more complicated or expensive job than you bid for. Whether due to clients scheming to squeeze all they can from you for no extra money, or just due to their being unaware that such changes may alter the scope of the job so much that the original bid is no longer reflecting the actual materials used or work involved, if you allow yourself to continually be persuaded to "throw in" stuff, you're going to end up in the hole, and that's not smart. Instead, when you realize you're into new territory, stop work and draw up a re-bid, showing the entire job as originally envisioned, and overlay the scope of the new work. Let the client know that to proceed, it will cost $x more than the original bid. Or offer to stay on the job as originally bid, and stay with that price. It's the client's decision how much to pay. It's your decision how smart you want to be while you're working for him.
9. Work as hard and as efficiently as possible, and finish each job as quickly as you can. Hit every job with everything you've got. Getting it done quickly and efficiently - while you have the time - is much smarter than looking at the schedule and telling yourself you have three more days to get it done, and then going to a long lunch or off to play tennis or whatever. (Obviously, you can do this on occasion - it helps you stay fresher mentally if you allow yourself small rewards from time to time - but making it habitual means you are always leaving things until every second counts. Not smart.) You don't know what will happen tomorrow - you might come down with the flu. Figuring that you will need only one day to complete that job if nothing goes wrong and then sitting on it just because you can is dumb. If you end up getting sick, you might not even be well enough to finish on time, let alone early. Running out the clock on jobs when you don't absolutely need to can force a rush at the finish line, or worse, deprives you of opportunities you might not have otherwise.
   
   
   • Example: You're the self-employed designer mentioned above. Today is Wednesday. You have a big job due for Spacely Sprockets on Friday. You know the job will only take about 8 hours if all goes well. You could quit at 4pm and go to a ballgame with friends, leaving you all day tomorrow to finish so that the job will be ready for pickup on Friday morning. Or you could put your head down and work until 8pm today instead of your usual 6pm, finishing all of today's work and the Spacely Sprockets job today - the client can pick it up on Thursday morning, a full day ahead of schedule. You decide to sacrifice the ballgame and get the job done tonight. On Thursday morning, Slate Rock & Gravel Corp.'s rep comes in, panicked because he has a job which he needs finished by Friday - you've worked with him before, and he realizes he will have to pay a rush charge to get it done that quickly. You accept the job on a rush basis, knowing you have cleared your schedule and can easily turn this around in time during regular hours - you will work no overtime, but still receive rush pay. Had you gone to that ballgame, Spacely's job would still be sitting there, undone, and in front of this job, and you would have to work all day today to finish it, then be forced to pull an all-nighter to finish Slate Rock's rush job. But because you sacrificed your fun at the ballgame: You can call Spacely Sprockets on Thursday and let them know their job is ready for pick-up, plus, you can do the new job, be Slate Rock & Gravel's hero - and you can get his job to him by Friday! On top of that, you can even give Slate Rock a slight discount (from the rate he was willing to pay for the rush job), and still make loads of money you wouldn't have been able to make at all, had you allowed the Spacely Sprockets job to run out until the original Friday deadline, slacking until the last minute.
10. Recognize the point of 'diminishing returns.' The above steps do not imply that you should work yourself to the point of exhaustion. You need to protect your health and the integrity of your job. Working yourself to a frazzle constantly makes you prone to mistakes. When you're so tired that you realize it's taking you twice or three times longer to do a job than normal, you need to call it a day. Rest at least a few hours, and come back fresher, so that you can be strong at the end of the job. Learn how to power nap.
11. Finish strong. It's sooooo important! Being dead tired and sluggish at the finish line is not smart - it's foolish. Be sure that you are well rested at deadline time. On the day a client is expected to pick up his or her job, go over it with a fine-toothed comb - and this means checking the finished product against the original instructions, making sure they match up. Check it for accuracy and detail, make any adjustments, corrections or touch-ups well ahead of the time the client will arrive - if possible, have someone else double-check you. Making sure every last detail has been checked and re-verified will make you confident and calm when your client comes to pick up the job. You can present it proudly, knowing that everything has been done to ensure the client will be happy with the finished product. Your confidence spills over to the client, which also makes it easier to ask for that final payment - when you see the client smiling and appreciative of the work you've done for him or her. This works for any project you have to do in life.